You make me laugh, you make me smile. You already make me feel so special. I’m so overwhelmed by this I don’t know what to do!

The wrong crowd

We all like to look good when we go out but how much is too much?

I went out with my cousins yesterday and was approached by two sleazy guys who said ‘Hey baby what’s going on?’ In the instance that I ignored them, they followed me and said ‘Hey babe can I talk to you for a second?’ I kept walking and my cousin got closer to me which made these two guys go away.

This isn’t the first time it’s happened and I seem to attract the wrong people. Sometimes I feel I should dress down and not wear make up for sleazy comments from guys to stop. Maybe a nice guy would approach me when I decide to look natural on some days.

It just gets really frustrating when you want to look nice and it makes you feel good but a lot of the time the wrong people have to make horrid remarks and wolf whistles.

The same thing happens if I wait at a bus stop on a main road. Cars come passed and just beep. It’s so annoying!

If only there weren’t guys who are that sleazy and make those comments but it’s bound to happen unfortunately. It’s quite sad to know that physical appearances get abused and aren’t looked at respectfully. Some girls honestly just want to look and feel good and wear clothes that suit their bodies without implying they want anything from guys.

All I’ve got to do is just mind my own business as I usually do and pretend they aren’t even there.

Looking good doesn’t always give us the results we want!

The law of attraction

The law of attraction is a term used in The Secret which means attracting our thoughts and drawing them to ourselves whether they are good or bad. It is the most powerful law in the universe because YOU attract what you want in your life and whatever thoughts are on your mind, you are emitting that onto a frequency to the Universe and those thoughts are transmitted back to you. Whatever it is you’re feeling is what you will receive.

This law fits in with something that happened to me today – I was at a department store minding my own business when a lovely man came up to me and told me: ‘You are so beautiful’ And it was so unexpected. I was so thankful for his compliment and it was so nice of him to say. He said it in such a respectful way too. Now I don’t intend to be up myself in any way at all here, but I’m happy he said that because I know I am and it’s because I feel good about myself and have been attracting thoughts of high self-esteem, knowing I look good, feeling good within myself that I’m receiving such compliments. I never used to be told this near as much or at all randomly when I had low self esteem because I didn’t believe in myself. I never believed I was beautiful at all.

Being positive and feeling happy within yourself brings so much good into your life. ‘Like attracts like’ as The Secret states and if you are constantly having happy thoughts then you are attracting that back into your life. The more good you feel, the more good things will come to you.

It works the same with negative thoughts. If you keep thinking them, negativity is what you are transmitting back.

‘Everything you want is an inside job! The outside world is the world of effects; it’s the result of thoughts’
– The Secret

Always remember to attract the good instead of the bad!

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